07-15-06 Just an update to let you know that I have NOT gone into labor
yet - I am just busy doing last-minute stuff and spending time with Susan
and Avi and, of course, Sean. Today is Shane & Katie's wedding on
the island - I will get home around midnight. Hopefully I'll get a chance
to post pictures tomorrow.
Due in one week
last day at work yesterday was bittersweet. I'm going to miss working
there, but obviously I'm ready to stop working, too. We had a lovely
dinner at Anducci's, and true to Anducci form, the food was great
and the service was slow and awful. Stephanie stopped by work to
bring me a pink bouquet of flowers ("If you have a boy this
may be the last pink you see for a while") and Gabbi made me
a beautiful bouquet of roses. I have both bouquets at the side of
I woke up at 5 a.m. this morning for no reason. At first I thought
my body was still on Starbucks time, but now I'm thinking maybe
it's just baby time. I don't really have any early symptoms
or signs yet, but Sean and I have a sense of impending.... something.
We're ready. Also? It's cold and raining today - and it should continue
for a few days. Ahhhhhh.
Susan gets here this afternoon.
Did I ever explain
Susan and I have been friends and next-door neighbors since we were toddlers.
We (Mom, Dad, and I) lived next to the family
duck farm and Susan's Dad was the town butcher and lived "up
the lane" from us. Susan knew she would be a nurse or doctor since
she was a little kid (and she was the smartest kid you ever met),
and by about age 12 or so she started telling me that she would deliver
my baby wherever I lived in the world. Then she went to nursing school,
then to Johns Hopkins, and all these years later I'm pregnant, and she's
been an OB nurse for ten years now.
It's just one of those karmic things that she's going to be here with
me, and even if she has to go home before I deliver (she leaves on my
due date), just having her here seems right.
Babymented? Start your little engines.
• link 07-10-06
I have a new cousin!
Wes, Val, and Chelsea
have been blogging their trip to China to pick up Cydney, and here are
some of the pictures from today. They have to remain in the city where
she was adopted for a few days for all the legal stuff to clear, then
they all return home on... my due date!
got two packages in the mail from friends that I have to mention
sent me two
onesies, some turquoise birthing bracelet beads, and a hunk
of baby blanket.
My knitting homies from back home, Heather,
all lovingly made this blanket for Babymented, plus Maggi threw
in scores of stuff from my Amazon wish list. I love them.
And one of these days I will start writing Thank You cards for people,
going all the way back to when I found out I was pregnant. Clarence
is on his way over for dinner. We are stocking up on social events
while we still can.
(Tomorrow is my last day of work... for a YEAR!!)
Yesterday at about
4 p.m. I remembered that I had a birthday dinner to go to, so I whipped
up a batch of peanut butter cookies and headed out. It's SO HOT when you're
180 pounds and you have 150% of your usual blood volume.
Sean and I have been researching the use of penicillin during labor for
GBS (Strep B), which is what I have. (Side note to Bonnie:
the timing of your e-mail was eerie.) I picked up the penicillin
so we have it here for the chance that a risk factor may happen (water
breaks more than 18 hours before baby is born or I run a high fever) but
otherwise we are speaking with the midwives again to see what they think
about us holding off on the penicillin unless, like I said, the risk factors
happen. A good example of my research can be found here
In the meantime I am taking all of my previous pre-natal supplements,
plus my last-month stuff (prostaglandins in Evening Primrose, cranberry),
and now two chopped fresh cloves of garlic and two acidophilus per day
(trying to get the GBS bacteria down), as well as soy/banana/flax protein
shakes daily. Yesterday I bought PomBlueberry juice to add to the mix.
I am a walking talking health food store. HAHAHA see that eight-inch-high
burger on the table? That was mine. So maybe I'm not.
Anyway, my point is, this is another one of the MANY aspects you can research
about pregnancy or delivery and you find out that the common medical route
can be... unsettling (see also: Vitamin
K, the eye
the baby during delivery, circumcision,
A good summary for all of this craziness, and why I am trying home birth,
I have other reasons, too, but they are off-the-blog. These are my opinions
and I'm not shoving them at anybody else, I've just had a lot of people
asking me "why" on many topics and I thought I'd throw some
links at you if you wanna look into them. For all I know at the first
contraction I'll start bawling and we'll rush to the hospital anyway.
Like I've said, I don't know what my pain threshold is, but I'm about
to find out!
Hopefully not today, though. I have things to do.
P.S. Baby doing a
nice roll during King Kong. I've tried recording all the other movements,
including hiccups, but they just don't show up. Plus as soon as I have
the camera the baby knows it, and stops moving.
So I have "having a baby" penciled in for sometime in the next
three weeks. Good news - we got the prescription for the penicillin IV's so
I now no longer have to go to the hospital to administer the first batch.
This makes me all kinds of happy. Dominique has managed
to distract us over the past week - her bad teeth abscessed and it was
really awful. Long story short, she was miserable and now she's $700 more
expensive than she used to be, and less three teeth and a hunk of jaw
bone. Gross. It it weren't for my family we'd be on the streets. I hope
there's at least another 60-70,000 miles left on her.
and Amy were here this morning and we met up at my Starbucks
(she would have died on the spot from her allergies if they had
come to our house). It was great to see them - they were on their
way to Whistler to celebrate their one-year
wedding anniversary. Instead of saying "I can't believe
it's already been a year" I feel like I can't believe it hasn't
been like, three years. Or so. I've gone through so many
changes in my life in the past year that it seems as though years
have gone by since I left Seattle. I've heard people say that pregnancy
just flies by, but lemme tell ya, mine feels like way
more than nine months. Going home last Thanksgiving
to tell my family? AGES ago.
Wes, Val, and Chelsea are currently in China to pick up my
new cousin! I look forward to meeting her at Laura's wedding
Babymented is very heavy tonight - which is interesting because
Grandma and I were just discussing today that her early
labor signs were just.... heaviness. Then tonight Sean
and I go out to run an errand and I'm holding my lower belly because
it's so heavy. Hmmmm....
having a baby this month.
I'm not sure if that could sound more freaky.
We're excited, of course, but I told my shrink that I'm all over
getting pregnant, and being pregnant? You bet!
But then actually having the baby and becoming a Mom?
Uhhh, that's not on my agenda right now. It's not on my Outlook
Calendar for which I can hit snooze with every pop-up reminder (along
with "h2o plants"). It's not a planned party. I'm perfectly
content to keep it right where it is for a few more months, providing
it slows it's growth. Oh and the little heel in front of my
right ribcage is a bit creepy too. But otherwise, really, it's much
easier to plan things knowing that it's still right where it is
now, and not... out. Out in the open, where I
have to do stuff to take care of it.
Turns out I have Strep
B, which means that I have to have an IV of penicillin every 4 hours during
active labor. Which is really not part of the whole home birth plan, as
the first dose must be administered at a hospital to make sure I don't
have a bad reaction, but then once we know this, I get to go home and
the midwife will have additional IV's of penicillin. It's just that I
didn't plan on having to ride to the hospital and from the hospital
while in active labor and who knows how long I'll actually be
at the hospital. But there are worse things that could happen so I'm trying
to be positive about this.
I have three shifts this coming week and then I work Monday and Tuesday
(the 10th and 11th) and then I'm done working. Susan and baby
Aviva arrive July 12. We get pedicures July 13. See? Agenda.
are a couple pictures of the completed bathroom. I made a set
on Flickr. The room is so tiny there's really no way to get
a proper picture of it without a wide lens. It's hard enough just
getting me in there.
As we speak (type? read?) we are missing the giant Culver/Quick
reunion in Michigan that only happens every 6 or 7 years. I mean,
we have a giant Culver reunion a few times a year but this is my
Grandma's side from New York and expands to second- and third-cousins
and is over 100 people. It's the due date, you see. I couldn't be
there for it. Agenda.